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July 28, 2010

Why Not . . . Make a Small Tweak?



It always amazes me how the smallest things can bring a great deal of pleasure and happiness.  In last month’s newsletter which focused on fitness, I suggested to my subscribers to set small goals, little tweaks in their lifestyle that would eventually add up to lasting results.  I also promised that the results of the changes I had incorporated as of late June  would be shared on the blog at the end of July (and I do, I promise – just read the first two suggestions to see how I did).

But my wheels began to turn about the concept of making small tweaks in our lifestyles that can yield very consequent results. And with that said, a new Why Not series came into being.
Throughout the next three weeks on Wednesday, I will propose suggestions of small tweaks that can improve the quality of your life whether it be in the area of health, organization, serenity, beauty and other aspects of your life that are often attempted but aren’t adhered to consistently due to lack of time, energy or the acceptance of the reality that a major change is hard.

This is precisely why the tweaks, or changes, I am going to suggest should be small.  By making simple small tweaks, the change is more likely to stick permanently because they only slightly impose on your life as it is, thus making it easier to do repeatedly (because in our minds, it’s easy to do) and the more often you are repeatedly doing it, the more likely it is to become a habit. Let’s get started.

Pay Attention
In other words, do one thing at a time so that you are conscious of what you are doing.  Americans are well-known for being multi-taskers, but in participating in this habit, the quality diminishes, because something isn’t being done well, it is simply being done and you might just get smacked in the face with something you didn’t expect because you aren’t committing your full attention.  For example, when you are driving and eating – are you enjoying your food? If you’re not enjoying your food, why eat at that particular time? Why take on the extra calories if they aren’t bringing you pleasure? 

Eating is the one area I wanted to change in my life with regards to this concept.  I, for the last month, have not allowed myself to eat while driving, but especially not while I was watching television.  And I have to say, two “light bulb moments” occurred to me – one - I’m eating slower which causes me to become full faster, thereby decreasing the amount of food I eat, and two – I find I’m not choosing to snack nearly as much because if I chose to snack before it was while I was rushing around doing something else or lounging and these aren’t viable options anymore, thus reducing my calorie intake.

Once a Week
So often, we make promises to ourselves and sign up for a tremendous undertaking of responsibilities which is then piled upon what we are already doing.  When we do this, even if the addition is an improvement or a positive change, it is added stress which makes it less likely for the change to continue to occur.  Instead of taking those new Pilates classes three times a week, why not start with just once a week?  The change you are seeking won’t happen rapidly with this type of a small tweak, but you are much more apt to continue to be enrolled in the class six months from now than you would be if you overwhelmed yourself in the beginning. And ultimately, don’t you want the changes you make to be lasting, not quick and fleeting?  So just think of the saying that goes “Easy does it.”  Be the tortoise. (My goal was to include yoga in my fitness routine, and I have been going to just one class a week, which for me works, otherwise I wouldn’t enjoy it nearly as much.  By taking it a little at a time, I truly do look forward to it each week.)

Clean it Up
Your language that is. Recently on Balance in Me by Anastasiya Goers, she made a point I found myself agreeing with wholeheartedly.  A simple positive change we can make in our lives is to clean up the language we use.  Not only is cussing impolite, but it causes others to be made uncomfortable, even if they aren’t the person it is directed at, and displays an uneducated mind who hasn’t the wherewithal to come up with something more creative to say.  So the next time you are frustrated (because I recognize that this is a reality in everyone’s life), make up your own word you use to express your anger that isn’t belligerent.

The Right Way

This one may sounds silly at first, but hear me out.  The UPS delivery company has a policy that 
drastically reduces their gasoline costs and time on the road, and all it is is “only making right turns”.  Think about it, the less time you spend idling your car in the middle lane to make a left turn, the less gas you’re using and less time wasted.  You add up how many minutes you’ve eliminated from your day, and you’ve decreased your gas budget.  Now this may take some more thought because you will be taking slightly different routes, but it has the potential to not only help your pocketbook, but help to decrease emissions a bit too because you won’t be on the road as much. 

Tidy Up

A simple tip I learned shortly after I graduated from high school while staying with some family friends was to upon leaving the house, or going to bed for the night, tidy up the room you were in or were using.  Another way to look at this is, when you arrive home from work, or being away, the peace of mind that you feel knowing your house is put together and ready to be lived in eliminates quite a bit of stress.  It is a similar thought when you wake up in the morning.  Who wants to walk into the kitchen for breakfast to find dirty dishes – not a great way to get started on the right foot.  So the next time you are walking out the door, look around, pick up the blanket, put the dishes in the dishwasher and in less than two minutes your house is tidy and ready to be enjoyed.

Click here to read part two in the series and here to read part three.  I’d love to know your thoughts, if you’ve tried any of these suggestions already, or what other ones came to mind that you would add to the list.  Have a wonderful day, and thanks for stopping by.

Images: (1)  Fashion Box (3) Sebastian (4) Source (5) Piper Pearl Page (6) Brabourne Farm 

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18 Comments:

At July 28, 2010 at 3:11 AM , Blogger Romance Is Boring said...

love these suggestions; I'll definately be trying them out :)

love your blog, the posts are so inspiring

romance-is-boring.blogspot.com

x

 
At July 28, 2010 at 3:38 AM , Blogger Fashion, Art and other fancies said...

I eat very slowly and I chew until food is "Mushy" in the mouth. I would never eat whilst driving and I also do not eat in the standing position. What I love about eating is chewing; it's so meditative;-)

 
At July 28, 2010 at 5:06 AM , Blogger Cara said...

GREAT POST! I really have to work on the "pay attention" rule...I am sometimes all over the place with ideas and projects and then it becomes too much!
I do eat pretty slow though...

 
At July 28, 2010 at 5:59 AM , Blogger Mish Dish said...

Great post! What I have found in regards to eating, exercise and wellness it all comes down to being gentle with ourselves. Be in the moment and be gentle. xo Mish

 
At July 28, 2010 at 6:13 AM , Blogger CJ said...

As always, amazing post! I am a firm believer of "Tidy Up"....growing up my mom had an acronym CAYGO...she said it all the time and I ended up writing a final exam paper for a communications class on it. What does it stand for? Clean As You Go. If we clean up - whether it be washing the bowl yo just mixed a cake batter in after you set the pan in the oven, or placing the newspaper you just finished reading into the recycling as soon as you finished - your clean up time is close to nothing. Not only that, but your home will always look tidy.

Hsppy Wednesday!

 
At July 28, 2010 at 6:24 AM , Blogger Andrea said...

This is a lovely post with great advice as always. The "pay attention" piece really struck a chord with me. I seem to constantly be on the go, busy, with a lot on my mind, and I start things, and then move onto to something else because I get distracted easily. I guess that's called ADD huh? Lol

 
At July 28, 2010 at 7:29 AM , OpenID dwellinganddesign said...

Lovely suggestions on improving our lives. I would have to agree with the food thing, but really it comes down to making time for yourself. One thing I have been doing this summer, especially when I am busy, is making myself a really fantastic beautiful meal. There is something about taking the time and treating yourself, even if it is just a fantastic salad.

 
At July 28, 2010 at 7:30 AM , Blogger Nikki said...

Great post! I could honestly work on all of these. Great reminders, thanks for sharing!



xx
Nikki

 
At July 28, 2010 at 7:36 AM , Blogger Mary said...

As always, LOVED this! Totally perks up my day!

xoxo

Delightful Bitefuls

 
At July 28, 2010 at 7:40 AM , Blogger Carrie said...

Perfect post and I love the idea of the new series. I used to be the queen of multitasking but now I try to do it less and pay more attention to the task at hand. I am also a big fan of tidying up, friends say our home is always ready for an open house. Now if only I could tear myself away from the tv and computer while I eat lunch....

 
At July 28, 2010 at 8:11 AM , Blogger LESAPEA MUSINGS said...

I'm sorry but I can stand to live in clutter, so I'm with you on tidying up. Especially with two kids, I constantly picking up.

Also I've just resumed my spinning classes, so I'm with on starting with once a week.

Luv Lisa

 
At July 28, 2010 at 9:19 AM , Blogger Lorrie said...

Great suggestions. Tweaking is a great way to feel like something manageable is being done.

 
At July 28, 2010 at 9:24 AM , Blogger SabinePsynopsis said...

I'm all for the 'Easy Does It' approach and I think I can learn in all areas! (I'm quite good at cleaning up before I go to bed already).

 
At July 28, 2010 at 9:27 AM , Blogger Rachel said...

i totally agree with the idea of small changes making a big difference.

i started walking to work with my coworker a few days a week which turned in to me walking to work everyday & walking most places in general.

im not a huge gym fan so this has helped me feel active without feeling like its a huge effort. im just getting myself somewhere i need to go, even if it is 3 miles away lol.

ive also tried to incorporate more veggies into my meals. instead of serving starchy sides i'll find a veggie recipe. and as a result i think my meals have been becoming healthier! yay. thus the zucchini boat recipe :)
so point being i love the idea of this series.

 
At July 28, 2010 at 10:04 AM , Blogger Café Bellini said...

I hate mess! And having a kid around encourages me to cook proper meals at home... Little changes are just as effective and they are easier to incorporate into the daily routine, you are right!
ps Anything less than 8 hours of sleep and I am grumpy!

 
At July 28, 2010 at 11:32 AM , Blogger Taylor said...

amazing list! totally making me think!!!!

 
At July 29, 2010 at 5:38 AM , Blogger The Zhush said...

Lovely AND smart advice...as per usual!

 
At January 20, 2011 at 12:08 PM , Blogger Prêt à Porter P said...

I like to use old words from the 1940s instead of cursing around other people in public. You're right it does sound uneducated and very repulsive when every other word out of someone's mouth is profanity.

 

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