The Simply Luxurious Life®: Through Struggle Comes Success  

February 21, 2011

Through Struggle Comes Success


“He who would learn to fly one day must first learn to stand and walk and run and climb and dance; one cannot fly into flying.” 

~Friedrich Nietzsche

Did you know that one of the most famous, well-known, respected men in American history at the age of 50 had not acquired success as we know it? In fact, what he had experienced was many a disappointment.  Here are just a few of these said disappointments and struggles: being forced out of his home along with his family at age 7, losing his mother at age 9, at age 22 losing a job as a store clerk and while wanting to go to law school, being unable to because his education wasn’t adequate, losing a youthful love to an untimely death and at age 28 being rejected upon asking his next love to marry him, failing the first two attempts in bids for Congress and upon being elected his third time, losing his re-election two years later, suffering a nervous breakdown, losing a young son,  and making two unsuccessful attempts at earning a seat in the US Senate.

Quite a laundry list of obstacles, moments to provoke extreme doubt and prompt one to possibly lose hope. It would almost seem this entire list couldn’t be equated with just one person, but it is. After all of this strife, at the age of 51, Abraham Lincoln was elected the 16th President of the United States, yet unfortunately, the heart-breaking moments didn’t stop there.

Why speak of such struggle? Why focus on all of the tough times?  What can Lincoln’s life teach us? What lessons can each of us learn from his harrowing experiences?

Great leaders don’t just materialize. Great success and a respected character don’t just appear out of thin air. As Lincoln’s life demonstrates, a life of integrity, a life full of appreciation and something worth admiring occurs after much struggle.

True success, creating a life that achieves contentment and inspires those around you to soar as well is something that requires a person of inner strength which is fostered by persevering through challenging times. While there are many in our world who understand this fact, there are far too many who believe that success comes to those who put out their hand and ask politely for it, and upon being laughed at or ignored, stomp their foot and whine. But David Bly reminds us in a succinctly put analogy, “Striving for success without hard work is like trying to harvest where you haven't planted.”

The truth of the matter is, whining and pleading will achieve nothing of value and maybe some pity. So instead of blaming our troubles for our inability to achieve the success we had dreamt about, why not be grateful for them and turn them into something beyond our initial imaginative desires?

Why not take it on the chin? So you were rejected, so the job you’ve coveted for years isn’t hiring, so your car breaks down, so you are faced with a medical situation you hadn’t planned on – look deep inside yourself, find your strength, tap into it and burn the midnight oil to make a seemingly unfortunate situation into something that will leave people inspired and you realizing the amazing strengths you may not have known you had.

Think about it this way, if everything in our lives ran smoothly and not one obstacle ever presented itself, would we ever realize our true potential? I highly doubt it.

Don’t get me wrong, times of struggle are not something I wish for, but it is in those moments when you are being tested that you can either choose to fail and remain where you are, or take it for the opportunity that it is and turn into gold.

Have a beautiful Monday everyone, and remember, good things don’t come easy, so I leave you with an extra quote today.

“You have to put in many, many, many tiny efforts that nobody sees or appreciates before you achieve anything worthwhile.” 

-Brian Tracy

Images: (1) Sebastian (2) Apartment #34 (3) Sebastian


At February 21, 2011 at 4:14 AM , Blogger Vanessa@Luxuria said...

Wonderful post Shannon! If only more people noted that not everything comes easily; it's the struggles and strives and how we deal with them that make us who we are. I think many of us have the mindset that if we have to struggle for it, it's not worth having. That's why we seem to be nurturing a generation of quitters.

At February 21, 2011 at 5:22 AM , Blogger The enchanted home said...

Anything worth having requires work, sometimes a lot, sometimes a little but always something. Great post and a good reminder to all those that good things do come to those who wait (and are willing to work hard for it) Plus it feels so much better and rewarding when you have actually earned something instead of having it be handed to you!

At February 21, 2011 at 7:42 AM , Blogger Prêt à Porter P said...

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At February 21, 2011 at 7:43 AM , Blogger Prêt à Porter P said...

I think with all this overnight sensation of reality tv and overly indulgent "friend" (lack of) parenting, the younger generation doesn't understand what it is to "earn" something but instead grow up feeling entitled.

At February 21, 2011 at 8:18 AM , Blogger ShameOnPretzel said...

You are my Monday Motivation.

Thank you so much for this.

At February 21, 2011 at 10:52 AM , Blogger Sandy at Ooh La Frou Frou said...

Another lovely and inspiring post, Shannon. Wishing you a lovely week! xo

At February 21, 2011 at 2:35 PM , Blogger chateaudelille said...

A timely post for me to read. many thanks, Fiona

At February 22, 2011 at 12:22 AM , Blogger Fiamma said...

Inspiring post! Thank you so much for making such a great blog and inspiring me every day!


At February 22, 2011 at 7:33 AM , Anonymous Gigi@BeautyXchange said...

This post has made my morning. Thank you for the insight and motivation.

At February 22, 2011 at 9:09 AM , Anonymous Laura Connell said...

It's true how we deal with pain is how we grow. Go through pain and you experience growth. Go away from it or around and you experience nothing.

At February 22, 2011 at 11:57 AM , Blogger Fiona said...

Thank you so much. What a kick in the pants I need.

At February 24, 2011 at 8:44 AM , Blogger Helen said...

Very inspiring post and completely agree with Laura`s comment.Through difficult moments in life we grow.

At February 26, 2011 at 6:24 PM , Blogger The English Organizer said...

Great reminder, thank you. I take great comfort and encouragement from stories like these... and since I'm attempting my first ever marathon next weekend, it's an important concept for me right now!


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